Is 4:30am too early to wake up when you're traveling? Not when it means you see the sun rise over Angkor Wat! Due to our early departure, our hotel fixed us breakfast to go. Now I know how hard it is to spread jam on toast while riding in a tuk tuk!
We approached the temple in utter darkness, needing the use of flashlights to see where to step. Once we were in an area where we could sit, we began the waiting game. The sky began lighting up far before we ever saw the sun, but it outlined Angkor Wat, making it a giant shadow framed against the orange sky. Finally, the blood red Cambodian sun made its arrival.
Once the ohhs and ahhs took place, everyone began a torrential descent into the temple structure. The interior of Angkor Wat wasn't the impressive part in my mind... I enjoyed seeing the formidable exterior, but once we were inside, I was ready to move on.
We went to many temples throughout the rest of the morning, but I honestly do not know their names. At most tourist attractions like this, you see signs with the name and history of each specific area...but here, there was absolutely no help. Either way, exploring the winding paths of each temple was a new experience, as each turn led to more fascinating stone work and architectural feats. In many of the temples, nature has made its claim on the structure... These are the ones that I found to be the most interesting, as it proves that this world could run fine on its own without humans. Given enough time, nature can erase any impression man leaves on it.
I asked Chorm if I could drive the tuk tuk as we were leaving, and he let me... I had to turn it around to get out of the grassy area he had parked, and as the tuk tuk went over a big root, the weight surprised me enough that I ended up dropping the bike. Fortunately, due to how the bike is connected to the tuk tuk, it can't fall all the way to the ground, so the only thing hurt was my ego...and I ended up bruising my leg pretty bad. Chorm laughed, I laughed, strangers laughed. It was a good time!
At this point in the day, Sita and I didn't realize we were about to experience a lunch to be remembered forever. Chorm mentioned us seeing his home, and I thought he meant we would be driving past it on the way back into town. After driving around somewhere I completely didn't recognize, we came up to a long stretch of dirt road. Chorm stopped, got off, and said, "OK Emily, you drive?" After my previous failure, I didn't expect him to trust me to drive, but here he was offering me the bike. That was all the prompt I needed of course! I hopped on and we took off. Chorm constantly mentioned how good I was doing, which just made me more confident. For those of you thinking, "Of course she knows how to drive, she owned a motorcycle!", Let me just say that with the weight of the tuk tuk changes everything. This was truly an amazing thing for me to do...
After a while of bumpy tuk tuk driving, Chorm told me to stop, and he took my place. We turned down an even more bumpy road, and after almost falling out a few times, we made it to his house. Finally, I got to see how the typical Khmer person lives. He built the house himself, using wood from nearby trees for the structure, and the leaves from the palm trees in his yard as the siding. He also has a shed with equipment used in the production of rice. At this point, I thought I was experiencing something amazing... Little did I know we had another stop.
We continued on to Chorm's parents house, and he asked if he were hungry. The next thing I know, he's telling the women there to cook us lunch. We sat and watched Chorm's nephews and nieces play until the meal was ready. Watching these children interact made my day (even more so than driving a tuk tuk). They were just so happy, and content with what they have. For them, a game was to chase each other with mouthfuls of water in an attempt to get close enough to spew the water out onto the other boy. Compare that to the obnoxious video games kids in the US are obsessed with!
The meal itself was delicious, but I unfortunately cannot tell you what any of it was other than rice, pork, rice noodles and mango.the sauce that actually made the meal, were of unknown origins. My stomach wasn't very happy with me after the meal, although my tastebuds sure were thankful!
I thanked the women profusely for the meal, to which they just grinned whole heartedly and acted like it was no big deal. Chorm showed us around the farm a bit, and led us on a tour around the immediate vicinity where the rest of the family lives. Aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews (6), nieces (4), his mother, father... The entire family resides within walking distance of each other, not unlike my family in northern Alabama. The standard of living is higher, but the familial relations is comparable!
Once back at the hotel, we ended jumping in the pool for a few hours before heading back to my favorite temple, Ta Prohm. This is the temple near Angkor Wat that you've probably seen pictures of before. It really looks like humans had to built around the trees, because it seems there are more trees than structures!
This day has made such an impact on me. I learn to appreciate what I have so much more when I visit countries like Cambodia! I hope you also can see how these wonderful people live, and can realize how lucky you are to live in a country as rich as America.